One of my older sorority sisters told me last week, “Those who make you happy are your friends. Those who don’t are not. It’s that simple.” I have thought about this a lot. I am way to guilty of understanding that people are busy, people have better things to do, or people just don’t care. However, I have realized that filling your life with people who don’t care is a waste of time and energy.
When you fill your life with people who don’t care it brings you down. Even if you think you don’t care what others are think, it effects what you are doing and who you are. Every time somebody you care about brings you down it is a huge strain on your personal well being (even if you say you don’t care, you are fine, you have moved on, etc.) Those who lift you higher know you better, they know whats going on and that is why they continuously lift you higher. Whether it be funny texts throughout the day, flowers for no reason, or a simple helping hand with something you are doing. All of this adds up and makes you realize who deserves to be in your life and who doesn’t.
Here are the people who lift me higher each and every day!
Mr. Tom Levitsky
My Best Friends (AKA The Biddies)
My Sorority Family